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Social Problem Peacemakers’
Mission
Program
Goals
Training
Methods Our
training methods include:
Personal Examples Consider two cases with positive outcomes. Take Blake’s experience in fifth grade. His parentsdescribed him as “shy and not wanting to be involved with other kids.” Bullying at school made matters worse. As often happened, one day an older boy bullied Blake on the playground. The boy threatened Blake and came at him with his fists. Rather than cower and submit to bullying as he did in the past, Blake stood his ground and asserted himself. He put up open hands to protect his face and took a safe stance toward the aggressor. Then, as he lowered his hands, he told the boy that fighting is not the way to settle conflicts and that he made a promise in Peacemakers to not fight. Blake walked away without a fight and with his dignity. Through this incident, Blake not only stopped the bullying but gained greater self-esteem and confidence. This in turn has helped Blake improve other relationships and his grades in school. Blake is no longer so shy, but walks with his chin up. As his parents report, “Blake believes in himself and is a better person.” Another student in Peacemakers has a history of aggression and has been expelled from school. Like certain others in his situation, other programs did not reach him to reform his behavior. But now in Peacemakers, he has made a covenant to abide by a pledge of nonviolence and is learning new ways to deal with his issues and aggression. As a result, in the past couple of years he has had fewer incidents of fighting, more positive relationships, and has returned to, and stayed in school. These are just two of many stories we can tell of empowering youth to make peace in their lives. Rather than submitting or striking back, both of these students, along with others, are learning positive ways to transform conflict. Who knows what this may prevent and what this will help them to become. We
hope that this program empowers many other youth to be peacemakers
in their lives.
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